In our vast majority of people’s emotional world, the color of the first love is often pink. First love is often ignorant of the feelings. In the beginning of that season, we always eager to be able to meet our own that person.
However, there is always a very interesting psychological phenomenon, that is, the vast majority of men or women eventually choose to marry who is often not their first love lover.
Why is there such a depressing phenomenon? In fact, this is a natural choice of gender psychology, in other words, we usually say “first love does not know how to love.” The roots of the first love is that we often not consider each other’s feelings, rarely stand in the other side of the point of view, or even more self-composition.
From the girl’s point of view, the first love girls seem gentle, but sometimes she will behave very tricky, so that men do nothing. And sometimes she will show too much demanding on the boys, so that boys feel tired. Sometimes she also asked the boys to express romantic feelings, so that men have racked their brains must be different.
From the boy’s point of view, the first love boys often only love early, don’t know how to express love without so much love experience. Facing girls indecisive emotions, facing every day’s test questions, facing dissatisfaction that girls accused of not enough romantic, some boys will always feel at a loss, but don’t know why. And the first love woman like a white paper, the reason why they allow you to paint color above it, perhaps just because you are the first one that met them.
First love is, after all, one of the most beautiful life experiences. But when a man can not achieve the first love girl’s ideal and vision, or when a man can not bear his first love woman, they will finally choose to give up.