It seems like in today’s generation people aren’t into the traditional old-fashioned dating. Do people now really want to get to know each other or do they just really want to spend a good time? It appears to be nowadays we just meet a guy or a very pretty girl, we talk for a few days, get into relations and then were back to square one, being strangers again. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for those who are into causal sex, but the fact that the whole dating era is gone is a little sad to me. It’s so beautiful when you actually get to know a person, spending genuine time with someone and getting to know all the little details, that’s what makes one appreciate the other and with time love another. All over social media we see people posting celebrity couples quoting “goals” so if the ultimate goal is to have such a great relationship then why do we rush things? Why is it that we no longer go on movie dates, or walks in the park, just honest conversations in hopes of seeing if that person is the one for you or not. Tinder has become such a huge platform for singles, basically it’s an app where you decide if you want to talk to a person depending on their looks. In my opinion, I find it very vague which explains why I am not on the site, but hey everyone is different and some people actually find it cool. According to a couple of friends of mine that are active on Tinder tell me its an app for singles to hookup with others, and it’s just like since when has sex become something so casual when in reality it’s so intimate and profound that you only want to share it with the person you love. I don’t want to sound like a prude but it worries me. Whats going to happen in a decade or two from now is sex going to be as meaningless and a hug? What’s going to happen to our kids when they are at that age where they are beginning to date? I don’t know maybe I’m just crazy but these were a couple of thoughts I had.
Relationships in 2016